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Gizmog1 Don't Lurk In The Bushes!

Joined: 05 Mar 2003 Posts: 2257 Location: Lurking In The Bushes!
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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Sex wasn't all behind the curtains in the 60's, or even the 30's or 90's for that matter. To a certain extent, people who've been curious have always been able to find a nickel peepshow at the county fair, maybe play a game of doctor. Hell, barbershops used to sell porn, and kids have always raided their parents private drawers for things. It's not a bad theory, but I think the feeling of doing something forbidden is only a little bit of the phenomena. Part of it very well could be left overs of animal instinct, a predisposition towards certain features or ideas. |
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The Wobbler

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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:26 pm Post subject: Re: A theory... |
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Gizmog1 Don't Lurk In The Bushes!

Joined: 05 Mar 2003 Posts: 2257 Location: Lurking In The Bushes!
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 11:20 pm Post subject: |
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He's pretty right there. WARNING PORN LINK www.rtroraunch.com pretty much proves it. By the way, Rtro should be Retro, that's just a safe guard so no one can accidentally click. There is some of the greatest stuff EVER there. |
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Velduanga I heard there were bagels here...

Joined: 25 Jul 2003 Posts: 112 Location: A town away from White Owl, I kid you not, unless he moved.
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 11:34 pm Post subject: Re: A theory... |
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Eggie wrote: | Because a child endures so muh of this media, REGULAR sex is normalized in their eyes.
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You probably should read up on Freud. He has this subject pretty in depth. But I bring up that quote for a question. Isn't that the point of regular sex? I wasn't aware regular sex was suppose to be non-normalized in common view. Although from my own observations 'fetishes' are actually not tied to sexual pleasure but instead accompanied by it. For example, pleasure derived from FemDom is not of actual sexual arousal but instead an addition to the same energy but the source of pleasure being the 'dominion'. Of course why a person derives pleasure from dominion or else said 'fetish' again, I've yet to completely hone on, because like you pointed out, has more than one source. _________________ If you hit a plane with the soccer, could you afford to fix it? - Shaolin Soccer
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jabbercat Composer

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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 2:33 am Post subject: |
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Yeah, but Freud was a pervert. I've read several of his papers and I've gotta laugh at them. There is little logic behind it, totally laughable. _________________ Moogle no longer owes prizes. |
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The Wobbler

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jabbercat Composer

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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 10:12 am Post subject: |
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I had to, I covered them for my Human Psychology course. Easiest exams I've ever sat, just waffle and the marker'll love it. _________________ Moogle no longer owes prizes. |
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The Wobbler

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Fenrir-Lunaris WUT

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I don't remember all that much from psych, but I seem to recall that the point of Freud is that a great deal of a person's personality is shaped in their formulative years by their parents. Since during Freud's time, it was considered the woman's job to stay at home and provide for the care of the children, it would have seemed only logical that children would become more attached to their mothers as an extension of familiarity. This being the case, Freud connected a person's future psycological problems to their development as a child, and consequently those responsible for their upbringing are largely the main contributors to their future adjustment or maladjustment into society. Parents who are there for their children and are - well, good parents - more often than not raise up productive, and healthy members of society. But yeah, it's all women's fault, is what he's saying.
As far as sexual fetishism goes, I haven't the slightest idea. Eggie's probably on the right track by saying that it's something that people develop as young adults. I'd go so far as to suggest that some fetishes could be traced back to early memories of childhood, and would be a subconcious attempt to add an extra sense of security or familiarity to an already tense moment. This might explain some, but not all fetishes naturally - for example, how would pseudomasochism or Femdom be regarded as "security"? (Though the thought had crossed my mind of a tough female cop being superficially similar to a bimbo in leather, this is more than likely association by prejudiced thinking)
You'd likely have to speak with an anthropologist to get a better answer, but they'll probably suggest something similar to this view of them being developed by association with a person's childhood. That, or people are naturally fucked up, and having a certain sexual fetish is probably really REALLY fun for some people. If you want to say it's a survival mechanism, I'd be inclined to agree, considering there are over 6 billion people alive today.
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